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13 Sept thoughts }
Wednesday, September 13, 2017 | 11:26 AM | 0Comment I think I have changed... For the better or for the worse, I'm not sure. But most defintely, I have to thank the people around me, whether thanking them gratefully or sacastically. I'm no longer that innocent gurl who constantly tries to cater to people's needs and wants, whether is it against my own wishes. Growing up, I slowly learn that people are selfish. Most, if not all, only think about themselves and of course this includes me, I'm selfish too. A few incidents with people taught me valuable life lessons. The most important lesson is to adapt and be totally flexible. Have less thoughts into what people do to you and life would be much more easier.... For a start, I'm someone who likes to be early than late. It was the way I was taught, growing up. I was totally inflexible, being extra sensitive to negative things. The first people who taught me to adapt to people's lateness would be my primary school best friends I would say. As we grow up, everyone changed. Secondary school days would be my worst as I try to adapt to my friends who had changed. The people who I once thought will never change, all changed. For me, it was either adapt to it and leave them. I'm glad I chose the first. Later, as I meet more people in Poly, I learnt that it was normal. Everyone will always be late, it was either you be late together with them or just simply be early and do your own things while they come. There are still some people who will be always be early when I have already adapted to the lateness. It was the toughest time for me as I struggle to find a balance. |
